Saturday 10 November 2012

Update #5

Dear family and friends again,

As I write this I hardly know where to start, so much to say.  Results came back from Mayo on Thursday afternoon. They have figured out what type of cancer Rob has and have come up with treatment plans. This started out as testicular cancer and has now changed into a different type of cancer, a form  of sarcoma. (forgive me if my spelling or terminology is not quite up to medical par) The good news is that they have diagnosed it; the bad news is that this cancer is quite aggressive and fast growing. Typically this cancer will respond to chemotherapy in doctors hopes that it will shrink the tumor. They are quite certain however that it will not completely kill it so at a later point down this road surgery will likely be the option to remove the last of the cancer.
Now as this is an aggressive cancer there will be aggressive chemo to match it. Our oncologist Dr. Czaykowski at Health Science Center has transferred Robs care to Dr. Wong at St. Boniface Hospital. We will miss his excellent care but seeing as Dr. Wong is specialized in this type of cancer we are comfortable with this decision. We won't miss HSC though and since yesterday late afternoon we are comfortably settled into a private room at St B  with a big window for front row seats to the 'big storm!'
As I write this Rob has started his very first dose of chemo. Dr. W wanted to start as quickly as possible, so while it has been alot of news thrown at us in a short time we are happy to say that we/they are 'doing something!' . Our heavenly Father has indeed been good to us and answered our prayers for treatment to start this quickly. The doctors have told us in no uncertain terms that though this chemo is being used to save Robs life it is also so severe that it could take his life. Robs health is frail and we ask for your prayers that he may persevere through all this.
Robs kidney functions are coming down quite nicely so that makes the doctors and us quite happy about that. This also is a answer to prayer. Though it may have been mentioned before, the doctors no longer are planning on dialysis in conjunction with chemo, as this specific chemo is not affect the kidneys.
On the subject of visitors, we have appreciated any and all visitors up till now. As typical with any sort of chemo however, things change. Rob is on a tough regiment of drugs which though they kill cancer, they also will kill a lot of good things in his body too. Including his immune system. The doctors have requested that myself and any family member who visit get the flu shot; this goes for others who visit as well. We request that absolutely NO ONE just drop in, please contact us or family first. If anyone has or has come into contact with colds, flus, etc we ask that you don't come. This is VERY IMPORTANT!
We thank you for your prayers on our behalf and ask that you keep on petitioning our faithful Father for his blessing on Robs health. Please pray that Dr. Wong may make the right decisions so that treatment may go well. Please pray that Rob may have the strength to sustain these treatments both physically and mentally. Please pray that our heavenly Father may give his strength and peace to our families that we in turn may be able to support Rob in all this.

As David puts it in Psalm 62:


My soul finds rest in God alone;
my salvation comes from him.
He alone is my rock and my salvation;
he is my fortress, I will never be shaken.
How long will you assault a man?
Would all of you throw him down—
this leaning wall, this tottering fence?
They fully intend to topple him
from his lofty place;
they take delight in lies.
With their mouths they bless,
but in their hearts they curse.
Selah
 Find rest, O my soul, in God alone;
my hope comes from him.
He alone is my rock and my salvation;
he is my fortress, I will not be shaken.
My salvation and my honor depend on God;
he is my mighty rock, my refuge.
Trust in him at all times, O people;
pour out your hearts to him,
for God is our refuge.
Selah
Lowborn men are but a breath,
the highborn are but a lie;
if weighed on a balance, they are nothing;
together they are only a breath.
Do not trust in extortion
or take pride in stolen goods;
though your riches increase,
do not set your heart on them.
One thing God has spoken,
two things have I heard:
that you, O God, are strong,
and that you, O Lord, are loving.
Surely you will reward each person
according to what he has done.


14 comments:

  1. So glad to hear that treatment has started and some questions have been answered!
    You are both daily in our prayers and will continue to be as we pray that He will sustain you both during this time of treatment.

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  2. Thank you so much for the update again. You have been constantly in our thoughts and prayers. We continue to pray that you will be given the strength in this tough road ahead, knowing that God is in control of all things and works all things for our good. Lots of love, Brad and Sophia

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  3. May the Lord give you both everything you need in the coming days, as they begin Rob's treatment.

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  4. God is so good!
    We'll continue to pray for you guys!

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  5. May our Heavenly Father continue to carry you in His hands. We continue to remember you in prayer, that day by day you might receive strength and also pray for God's blessing over the medical treatments that you receive.

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  6. take care off yourself Felicia. Wish Rob alle he best en strenght. May Gob bless the doctors and the chemo.

    aafke de vries

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  7. We continue to keep you both and your families in our prayers.

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  8. Rob and Felicia,

    Thanks for the updates. I’m glad to hear that things could progress to the point that Rob could start receiving treatments, God is indeed merciful, and may you both also continue to find the strength you need in Him. We continue to keep you in our prayers.

    God bless,
    Alvin

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  9. Rob & Felicia,
    We are very thankful that treatment could begin. It is our hope and prayer that the Lord will bless those treatments and that you may be on the path to full restoration of health. May you continue to find your strength, comfort and encouragement in His Word. You remain in our prayers

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  10. "For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face; I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known." 1 Cor. 13:12 One of the hardest confessions for us to make is, "I don't know". Perhaps our inability to answer life's deepest questions reminds us of our limitations. If we are honest, we must acknowledge that man is finite and that there are many things we would be incapable of understanding even if we were given the answers. Someone has said, "I don't know the future, but I know Him who holds the future." How we need the security of faith in God. Even though we do not know the answers to questions like "Why did this have to happen?" we know the God who has the answers. And we know that Jesus Christ Himself is the answer to the most important questions of life. You and your family remain daily in our prayers to the King of Kings.
    Fred and Jane

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  11. Hi Rob and Felicia. I talked with L this evening and so got a bit of an update about things. We know that you are receiving peace from the sense of God's nearness and that's a great comfort for us, too. May the Lord uphold you every hour and bless the care you are receiving. From all of us in Aldergrove.

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  12. In Christ alone my hope is found HE is my strength, my light, my song.
    Praying with and for you for the healing hands of God. May He give you the strength to go through this journey.
    The Stad family, Neerlandia, AB

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  13. In your blog posts you have mentioned how God has changed your expected path, how He knows the treatment plan even though you didn't. What a comfort to know that all of this difficult time is known by our heavenly Father and in His control. We are so sorry to hear that you have to go through this difficult time, but pray that you will continue to find strength and comfort in the Great Physician.
    Bob and Debbie Johnson (Deb is cousin of Rob's dad, and Bob works with Rob's brother John)

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  14. Eu e minha família estaremos orando por Rob. Que Deus possa confortá-los nesta hora difícil. Me and my family gonna keep on praying for Rob. May God give you confort in this dificult time. Take a look in our Heidelberg Catechism, Lord's Day 1. Greetings from Brazil!

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